Have you ever wondered, 'why do people get into relationships?'Some to find love, others for social status, others for money, sex and some for marriage and procreation. From what I have gathered, its pretty much confusing. But I do know for sure that everyone start with the hope of finding love! That's one of humans' great desires. No matter how great or powerful or rich and famous, there is always this space that love needs to fill up. That's the basic thing. But somewhere along the way,individuals' priorities change.
Some stop believing in love due to personal experiences or stories heard, others hold on to the hope that love is gonna find them someday but get shattered hopes and dreams in return. Some people prefer to remain guarded for the fear of heartbreak, refusing to open up that soft part of them. I for one has yielded to the latter.
For people called the hopeless romantics and in otherwords, optimists in the world today,they are used as a free ground for a whole lot of arseholes and jerks to thread on. Because they won't stop believing in love and keep yielding themselves to their feelings. This jus gives room for heartbreak and pain as the world we live in today do not appreciate the notion of true love. You can hear the 'I love you too's, 'I'll do anything for you' 'you're my everything' but its all for the show. People would say anything to get what they want and you being so excited about having 'found love', would fall for all the sweet words and in the end, you find out that all you thought was perfect and true and magical comes crashing down in the twinkle of an eye! With just one sentence 'it's over' 'I can't do us anymore' 'I found someone else' the one thing you have put your all into becomes nullified. You even wonder if you missed something! Sad much!
Its even harder these days when you're the kind of so called 'ideal' girl or guy. You know, the kind that everyone wants. The dream guy or girl with beauty, brains, money and good nature. You never knows who wants you for the real thing or just for the hype of having you.. Like a trophy! I definitely have to deal with that everyday of my life now. Infact, I have made up my mind to expect the worst from every guy. Don't even have the 'ginger', the boost, to go into any relationship or abandon an existing one. You know the saying the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know and that the next guy you meet might be worse than the one you already have. I mean I have built up a conviction in my heart that all men will do the same thing. None is different from the other. The sad ugly truth we all have to live with.
Those of you that reason with me and have gone through the same phase understand what I mean. Its now a thing of 'what's the point' 'they will all mess up in the end'. Why should I bother my head pleasing one man or lady when in the end I will only be taken for granted, unappreciated or be hammered with more and more complaints. Its a simple thing people, 'If he can't handle my worst, he aint getting my best'. Only God deserves MY best! Dunno about y'all. I am very justified in this statement because in my short days on this earth I haven't seen any reason I should think otherwise! Its a free world! Drop in your comments, let's hear from your own perspective!
I speak to you as an independent woman 'UNLUCKY IN LOVE'. From the beautiful mind of yours truly. :). You know I'm awesome. Xoxo
Thursday, May 31, 2012
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
KA-CHING!!
I lie in my bed this morning all I see around me is (dit is 'n) ppointment, riot, anger.. Its a troublesome world we live in. A world where love is dead and everything good is slowly becoming a faint memory. Children are growing up too fast, parents do not have time for their kids anymore. They are too career-oriented and self-obsessed to even care. The signs everywhere remind me that the world as we know it will soon come to an end.
Gone are the days when a man can be taken by his word. In the society we live in today honesty is something that is far gone.everyone is expected to have a alterior motive for everything they engage themselves in. Now,as a young girl you can't be with a man except you want him for his money. You have to have boyfriendss not one because its the order of the day. Those you tell you are faithful to your partner tell you 'shut up' 'we know he can't be the only one' 'who are the others?'. And the young girls who try their best against all odds to be faithful to their partner and vice-versa are frustrated by the infidelity of their better halves. The frustration leads them to question the point of being faithful in the first place. What is the point of giving your all to someone and at the end of the day he or she wakes up to tell you 'I don't love you anymore'. I for one have given up on the little girl dream of pure love and romance. My new motto is to put my all in2 my career and my God those two things wnt rise up to tell you 'I don't love you any more'. I'm an independent woman and will remain so.
People get married today, for better for worse for richer for poorer.. Blah blah blah! Thinking their lives have become a fairytale, a dream come true, only to realize that what used to be a sacred bond is a mere joke in this world we live in. The holiness of matrimony is simply a myth! Pastors now are involved in adultery without blinking an eye! Women cheat on their husbands in d slightest sign of financial crisis. In a gathering of married men, talking of their concubines is more a matter of pride. What happened to one man to one wife! It is a sad story I tell you. I sometimes wonder the use of getting married out of love. That word is a joke to all as far as we all are concerned. This life is full of many unexplainable problems we create for ourselves. I really hope God helps us all!
From the beautiful mind of yours truly, jus thought to share a little piece of it with the world.
You know I'm awesome.. Xoxo
Gone are the days when a man can be taken by his word. In the society we live in today honesty is something that is far gone.everyone is expected to have a alterior motive for everything they engage themselves in. Now,as a young girl you can't be with a man except you want him for his money. You have to have boyfriendss not one because its the order of the day. Those you tell you are faithful to your partner tell you 'shut up' 'we know he can't be the only one' 'who are the others?'. And the young girls who try their best against all odds to be faithful to their partner and vice-versa are frustrated by the infidelity of their better halves. The frustration leads them to question the point of being faithful in the first place. What is the point of giving your all to someone and at the end of the day he or she wakes up to tell you 'I don't love you anymore'. I for one have given up on the little girl dream of pure love and romance. My new motto is to put my all in2 my career and my God those two things wnt rise up to tell you 'I don't love you any more'. I'm an independent woman and will remain so.
People get married today, for better for worse for richer for poorer.. Blah blah blah! Thinking their lives have become a fairytale, a dream come true, only to realize that what used to be a sacred bond is a mere joke in this world we live in. The holiness of matrimony is simply a myth! Pastors now are involved in adultery without blinking an eye! Women cheat on their husbands in d slightest sign of financial crisis. In a gathering of married men, talking of their concubines is more a matter of pride. What happened to one man to one wife! It is a sad story I tell you. I sometimes wonder the use of getting married out of love. That word is a joke to all as far as we all are concerned. This life is full of many unexplainable problems we create for ourselves. I really hope God helps us all!
From the beautiful mind of yours truly, jus thought to share a little piece of it with the world.
You know I'm awesome.. Xoxo
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