People would love you and support you when its beneficial. How it happens we never notice. You forge a friendship. You do everything together. You are both doing well, its all okay as long as your success doesnt make the other person feel uncomfortable but we all forget life aint no bed of roses. And snap! It happens. This other person is moving way too fast. You find urself being afraid of what he or she might do next. Its suddenly not fun and games anymore. You are tired of clapping on the sidelines while the other one takes over everything they pass through. Thats when you begin to find faults. Things that u knew and used to be okay with suddenly becomes overbearing. You suddenly cant take it anymore. There is too much tension and pressure. You begin to drift. The other person might not even know whats going on in your head. But its there, happening. You are trying ur best to stifle it. But it aint going away.
Moral of the story? Successful people are not friendship people. They scare the shit out of everybody that gets close to them. Its just basic human instinct to see success as a threat. Only great minds think alike. On this path of success, i dont fool myself into thinking anyone is there for me, or is happy for me. Happy to see me shine. No basic human is wired to be that way. Instead of decieving myself that i am loved or relying on some reasurrance from any forged friendships or relationships, i move along. That fire on the inside is what keeps me going. The things i meditate upon are what the Word of God has to say concerning me. Vanity upon Vanity all is Vanity. All things shall pass away in the end.
There is nothing about a successful person that is loveable. So everyone should keep their fake love to themselves cuz in the end they cant even stand the test of time. Think about it, you have everything in this world that everybody else dreams of. And u expect them to be happy with you? Lies! There is no point to it. Be good to people, but never forget. Everyone is comfortable with mediocrity, someone who they can patronise, someone who is always at their mercy. There is nothing about you that agrees with that. Its always only about a matter of time. Always.
